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Question: Last year was our first year of homeschooling our then 4.5yo daughter and 2.5yo son. We began the year using a mixture of Montessori materials, work books, and Little Stories for Little Folks for our daughter, and nothing formal for our son. When we found out in October that we were expecting a baby, and I started to feel very tired and nauseated all the time, we purchased the Grade 1 curriculum for our daughter and began to follow the plan around January. We only worked on language arts, math, and religion. She has progressed very well with LSLF and is now starting level 4. On the rest of the subjects, however, she's about halfway through the Gr. 1 curriculum. How should I proceed this coming year? What should I do after she completes LSLF? Should I start science from Week 1 but continue math and religion at the week # we stopped at? Is it bad that religious studies is out of sync with the liturgical year? An even greater concern I have, now that our baby son has arrived, is how to teach while taking care of the newborn. I just don't know how to give much undivided attention to my older kids with all the feeding and diaper changing and rocking baby to sleep, etc. I'm tired and losing my patience easily these days, and I'm afraid that come September it will just be me yelling at the kids all day and they will end up hating homeschooling. I admire all the moms who have many more kids and still manage to run a peaceful household. How do they do it? Sorry I have so many questions, I just feel overwhelmed at the moment.
Answer:

Dear Mom,

God bless you dear heart. You are doing a fantastic work with your little homeschoolers. Considering the wonderfully lovely challenges that you are going to be facing with a little baby I would most definitely go easy into the upcoming homeschooling year. It truly sounds as if you have managed to get a jump start on your teaching being that you have managed to nearly complete the work for first grade for a student that is traditionally of preschool age.

Please do not overly concern yourself with the logistics of teaching with a newborn. It is far more important considering the young age of your dear children that you rest, eat well, and recuperate. A baby's arrival allows that you give yourself a wonderfully relaxed time of recuperation. In so doing your mental and physical well being will serve you well.

Your children will enjoy homeschooling as a time of closeness with mom. Please do not push yourself unnecessarily as this creates stress and tension that is often released when normal frustrations mount. Remember that all moms who are facing homeschooling are just like yourself. We all have our bad days and our good days. There are seasons when it seems that there is just not enough of 'me' to go around and to meet the many demands that I will face. It is in those days that I have forgotten the most important lesson a homeschool mom can remember....God handles the challenges through our docility of spirit when we gracefully and with humility give those challenges to Him. Do not take on more outside activities than you can peacefully commit to do. Remember that your little homeschool is the most important school and as such it is holy because it is of the Lord's will. The Lord will empower and inspire you to meet the tasks at hand.

One of the first tasks that I in my weakness will sometimes forget to do is prayer. I will feel pushed to get my day started because we are facing several tasks and opt to 'quickly throw in a load of clothes and pray my morning prayers in a minute'. Of course that minute usually never comes. In those days my spirit is unsettled and I lose my focus. Of course the reason for such a feeling is that my focus was not met at the beginning of the day. The focus is the Lord.

Go forward into your holy and worthy work. Be kind to your spirit and know that the Lord loves you so very much and desires to empower you every step of the way. When we turn to the Lord with our sorrows, challenges and anxieties He loves us through these times and tenderly embraces us with such an overwhelming love that we can feel His presence. I admire you and will keep you in my prayers. Your holy witness is lovely and surely will serve to uplift all moms in a similar situation who will read your letter.

Let us pray our prayers for all those families that find they are facing challenges related to caring for a sick newborn or sick children. Let us offer up our daily challenges on their behalf. Lord we pray that they are able to be fed well and to rest peacefully. Jesus we love You and long to see Your face in every second of the day. Amen.

Sending out a prayer,

Rita Munn

   
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