Dear Mom,

Let us begin today with a Hail Mary. Let us ask our dearest Mother to take you in her arms at this time and comfort your spirit. Mary our Mother please guide and protect all mothers as they work through the challenges that Your Son Jesus allows that they bear. Amen.

Many times when we are facing a change in our situation (a new baby, the start of homeschooling, surgery, etc) we can get caught up in many details that further unsettle our hearts and make it very difficult for our spirits to rest quietly in the Lord's embrace. From the information that you have shared, it is obvious that the only child in your household who will need formal education is your oldest. A first grade student is more independent than many realize and requires only one or two dedicated hours in a day to accomplish the work necessary for schooling. But let's look at the challenges that you are facing a little closer than just homeschooling.

You asked that I help you get started. I am about to tell you that your journey with the homeschooling lifestyle began the day you conceived your first child. Each day that you had the knowledge that you were carrying a new life you spent your time in preparation for the day you would give birth and continue the journey in a new way. You watched what you ate, you exercised, you kept your medical appts. and you prepared a nest for the new baby. You are the one who taught your child to walk, talk, feed his or herself, and to be potty trained. You have been responsible for teaching your child nearly every skill necessary for that child to progress to this point. Think about all the information that your little child has to date. They know when a favorite program comes on the television, which foods they like or dislike, where you store their favorite snack and they also recognize people and places. I would venture to guess that your child knows where you are going in the car just by the landmarks seen from the car. I could go on and on but I trust that you get the point that I am trying to make.

You have been an excellent teacher up to this point and you will continue to be an excellent teacher from here on. I would suggest that you spend the next few days in prayer. Quiet your spirit and pray. The Lord must be calling you to this lifestyle and therefore in that call He will empower and inspire you to take the next few steps.

Check with other homeschoolers in your area who have traveled the legal roads of the homeschooling journey. It is not nearly as complicated as you might think and with a few phone calls you will be all set and ready to go. I would suggest that you take the next couple of days to investigate the different curricula that are available to use for homeschooling.

I personally prefer a Catholic curriculum. In my opinion, if I am going to homeschool then I am going to use a Catholic curriculum so as to have a well-rounded, faith-based education. Please take time and view the curriculum that CHC has to offer. If your budget allows (and note that a curriculum is an excellent investment) having a preplanned curriculum that is laid out and easy to follow day to day will actually free up your time immeasurably. When you have to have the children under the care of another it easy for another caregiver to follow the lesson plan and keep the children on task ensuring a continuity of education. If you decide to order a curriculum, do so now so that you are able to start teaching from the curriculum when school begins or perhaps you can teach a little through the summer in anticipation of the interruptions that will occur with regard to your surgery etc. Look over the curriculum and familiarize yourself with it. CHC curriculum are totally Catholic in content and teacher/mom friendly, making them a joy to use.

Above all, rest in the secure knowledge that the Lord's own strength is your strength as well. Make time for the Blessed Sacrament in Eucharistic Adoration. After Mass sit before the Blessed Sacrament and quietly rest in the True Presence. Jesus has the power to take us far from the busy, frantic concerns of the world and into the peace that passes all understanding. In this peace we find our ability to meet challenges and go forward.

I admire you very much. You are a dear, sweet mommy who has a heart for her children. The Lord is holding you close and giving you the courage and the strength to do what is necessary. Please make certain that you get enough rest, and good food to eat. Take time to walk everyday and to sit quietly in prayer so as to ensure that you are peaceful and ready for the birthing journey. I pray that you will have an uneventful and uncomplicated labor and delivery. I pray that you will know the joy of plentiful milk and that your little baby will grow vigorously and happily content. Take care and know that you are in my daily prayers.

Sending out a prayer,

Rita Munn